Lessons With Friends

I have had a lot of friends through out the years. Not all of them good but not all of them bad either. I believe that some people come in to your life to stay and others come into your life to teach a lesson. Sometimes it's a good lesson that teaches you what kind of a friend you really want.  Like for me I have always been a very generous and caring person. I want my friends to be happy but sometimes I forget to think about my own happiness before others and it can lead me into trouble. I don't like to give up on people sometimes even when they have wronged me multiple times. I am very loyal to my friends until there sometimes is no alternative but to give up on them. I always feel bad about it but some times it is for the better and its not because I didn't try.  I have often gotten taken advantage of when it comes to friends because of my gentle nature. It has been easy in some cases for people to walk all over me and not give it a second thought. Other people have come into my life like welcoming mats. They seem all nice and I get comfortable with them. We share stories and experiences. We go on outings and share moments of our lives together that we can never get back. Suddenly when all seems fine and dandy they turn on you and like a knife to the heart they leave you in the dust and everything you knew comes crumbling. Those are are the types of friends that come in to teach a lesson when the lesson if over for better or for worse when they leave.

Thankfully not everyone is like that. Some people are good sweet gentle friends treat me with decency. These friends are like gold. Always there when I need them. These friends are like gold to me. Always there to cheer me up if I ever get sad or lonely. I don't like to depend on anybody and sure I don't need them but they do make a little life better. Some people have come into my life and for whatever reason like they were in your life before and you didn't know it just like sparks on the forth of July it happens and we just click. It's funny because usually when these friends come into my life its usually at a time when I leased expect them to or at times when I am leased looking for a friend but I am happy I did. These special people come into my life and I just know its like I have known them all along. I don't know if its luck or what the reason is but its like it was all sort of meant to be like part of gods plan. As the years go by and as time goes on I can't remember my life without them. Like I can't remember a time where I didn't know that person or when they weren't a part of my life. I wouldn't want it any way I love my life and the people in it. They say things happen  for a reason but I love my friends. Maybe it was just fate  or chance that I have such wonderful friends but what ever the reason I feel like the luckiest person alive.I think the lesson here is things happen for better or worse. My dear sweet forever friends you know who you are we will together forever. Like footprints in the sand your names, the names of my friends are always in my heart forever because we are forever friends. HEARTS & KISSES!!!